Spanking

Discipline

For the first time since we have had our sons, I had to spank my seven-year old. He kept doing the opposite of what he was asked and told to do. It was not pleasant for him since he had a full day of disobedience. Three swats and it was done. He cried. I kept from crying. Mom stood in shock. Brother didn’t say a word. After speaking to my father the other day, he asked me how things were going with the boys.

Me: So far so good, Dad.

Dad: Have you had to spank them yet?

Me: Yes, my two-year old, but not my seven-year old.

Dad: After I spanked you for disobedience, Son, I would go into my room and pray and cry.

Me: Really?

Dad: Yes. That was the one thing that I did not want to do but I had to. I had to teach you and your siblings discipline because this is what God does as a loving Father — He disciplines us.

Me: Yes, He does do that. And it’s not too pleasant either.

I remember learning a great deal from my two older brothers. As Dad would discipline them, I made mental notes not to do what they did! But all in all, I am grateful for my Dad spanking me. Now that I look at my life, it really isn’t all that bad. I am disciplined in what I do in ministry and I am disciplined at home. Did I enjoy being spanked? No, of course not. Neither do my Sons. But as a loving Father I explain to them the reason for the spanking and I tell them that if I didn’t discipline them that would mean that I don’t love them. I discipline them because I love them.

The writer of Hebrews says this of God:

You have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood in your striving against sin; and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons. “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you are reproved by Him/ for those whom the Lord loves He disciplines, and He scourges every son whom He receives. It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline? But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Furthermore, we had earthly fathers to discipline us, and we respected them; shall we not much rather be subject to the Father of spirits, and live? For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. (Hebrews 12:4-11)

Sunday Review, March 3, 2013

Well, another great day! I’m a couple of days late getting this Sunday Review typed out. I had the privilege of being at the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention’s Empower Evangelism Conference held in Irving, Texas. More about that on my next post.

Sunday morning we studied Hebrews 5:1-10 – Jesus the Great High Priest. We are supposed to have a “representative” government here in the United States. When our forefathers began this Country, they thought it would be good to have different people to represent the people. We need representation. In addition, when you consider your standing with the Government of God, we need a representative. In the Old Testament, the high priest was the representative of people before Holy God. The Aaronic priesthood was insufficient. Man needed someone who was a real person, was truly sympathetic with our weaknesses, who sacrificed and made offerings to God, and who did not exalt himself. That Person, the Great High Priest, is none other than Jesus Christ. (You can listen to the message by clicking here!)

Sunday evening we were in Exodus 13. God gave specific instructions to Moses for the people to celebrate what God did by preserving their firstborn sons and animals. The 10th plague on Egypt took the firstborn of Pharaoh, all of the Egyptians and even the firstborn of all their animals. But God commanded Moses to have the Israelites place the blood of a lamb on the doorposts and lintels of their doors. When the 10th plague arrived, the homes of the Israelites and those who followed the Hebrew God were passed over with the plague. God did all of this so that the Israelites would know that He is God — their God. (You can listen to the message by clicking here!)

Discipline

Discipline

So I have been thinking. Sometimes this is good and sometimes not so good. But I was thinking about discipline. It takes discipline to accomplish a number of things in life. If you want to be a good sports person, whatever the sport may be that you enjoy playing, you have to practice and practice and practice. In practicing, you learn certain skills that perhaps your opponents may already know or they may not know, but you train yourself to play to win.

When Bobby Fischer played chess he played and played and played. It was his astuteness in discovering how each piece played on the board. He studied games that he either played or watched and he learned all the right moves and strategies that it takes to win a chess game. He worked at it day in and day out. He was disciplined to win just as if he was playing a sport.

People have various work ethics. Some people work hard while other slough off any time they can. My wife is a disciplined worker. She gets up early in the morning and goes through the same routine in order to accomplish getting me up and my two sons to start our day. She feeds and waters the dog, she makes breakfast for the boys, she sets out our vitamins (chewable gummy bears, of course!), and this is all done right before she leaves to go to her office which is 20-25 minutes away. Once she arrives at work she puts her all into it. She works from the time she arrives until the time she leaves. She is disciplined and accomplishes a lot in one day.

My cardiologist told me that he wants me to start exercising. Every time he takes my blood pressure it’s right where it ought to be and I don’t even exercise! But still, he wants me to discipline myself in order that heart doesn’t fail me later in life…like next week. If I was disciplined enough to exercise, then I probably would not have the stress that plagues me at times and my cholesterol would be down and my blood pressure would be even better than what it is. But it takes discipline.

Disciplining a child accomplishes much also. It first accomplishes the setting of who’s in charge. Now that doesn’t mean that you spank your child just to show him that you are bigger than he is and you’re the one in charge. On the contrary, it establishes a boundary for you and your child. It also accomplishes the training of your child in the way that he should go. That is, he should be growing up to know the difference between right and wrong, good and evil. When you discipline a child, you teach him what is true and what is false. Third, discipline accomplishes a healthy lifestyle for your child. That is, he will grow up respecting others and their property. He will do what is right and good and acceptable. In essence, he will grow in stature and favor with others. Finally, you teach your child that you love them by the discipline that you show and give them.

More importantly, when you discipline your child in the way that he should go, you will teach him about God. That’s right – you’ll teach him about God. Read what the writer of Hebrews says about God:

You have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood in your striving against sin; and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons, “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you are reproved by Him; for those whom the Lord loves He disciplines, and He scourges every son whom He receives.” (Hebrews 12:4-6)

Discipline will take you far when you want to accomplish something. Discipline of your child will take him far if you recall the discipline that God gives you when you step out of line. It’s not that He is looking to zap you every time you sin. No, He loves you enough to set you on the right course. And to know what course that is, you need to discipline yourself to read and study His Word, the Bible. When you are disciplined in His Word, as a loving Father, He teaches you in the way that you should go. And, if you submit your will to Him, you shall not depart from Him but you will be there loving Him as He has loved you.