D.J. Gorena

“Consistency” is defined in several different ways:

1. a degree of density, firmness, viscosity, etc.
2. steadfast adherence to the same pricniples, course, form, etc.
3. agreement, harmony, or compatability, especially correspondence or uniformity among the parts of a complex thing.
4. the condition of cohering or holding together and retaining form; solidity or firmness.*

It comes from the word “consistent” which has the meanings:

1. agreeing or accordant; compatible; not self-contradictory.
2. constantly adhering to the same principles, course, form, etc.
3. holding firmly together; cohering.
4. Archaic: fixed, firm.*

To be consistent means then to holdfast in what it is that you want to be consistent. It means that you will live in constant agreement, adhering to the things that are most important to you.

For me, the most important thing is my relationship to my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. The Bible tells me in Ephesians 2:10, “For we are His creative work, having been created in Christ Jesus for good works that God prepared beforehand so we can do them.” I want to be consistent in my relationship with the God that I believe.

Next, my family needs my consistentcy in presence and participation. This takes me being attentive. I’m unfortunately not always as attentive as I should be, but I’m working on it. I need to be sure to be home with my family and I need to speak with them, listen to them, love them, and be an active part of their lives as they are with me.

Then being consistent with my church is vital. Since I’m a member of a local congregation, I want to be consistent in my presence in worship and other Bible studies. I also want to consistently participate in the various planned activities with other members. This takes time and it takes consistency to get to know others and to become friends in the faith that we share.

Finally, my country is of great import in my mind and I desire to be a good citizen. The world–or so it seems–is chaos right now. I want to be consistent in blessing those around me even when everything seems to be chaotic. That means that I need to be kind and do my fair share of what needs to be done to help create a safe community in which to live. I love my country so I want to help take care of it.

Consistency in all of these things is not the easiest all of the time. Sometimes I waver in this one or that one, but these are things of which I want to be consistent. But how can we be consistent to that which we find most important? Let me give you a few steps to help you be consistent.

Evaluate what you find to be most important to you.

Look at your life and discover what is most important to you. Take the time to think through where you desire to be consistent. Ask yourself: Am I consistent with my relationship to Jesus Christ? Am I consistent with my family relationships? Am I consistent with my connection to my church and my faith?

Study the idea of consistency.

Look up what it means to be consistent. You can use a wonderful tool like Google to look up how you can be consistent in the areas that are most important to you. Certainly there are books that can help you train yourself in thinking and acting. As I’ve heard it said before, eat the meat of what you learn and spit out the bones! Not everything you read will be beneficial, but that which is you keep! Keep it and apply it as you learn it!

Work on consistency.

Take the time to work on being consistent. There will be times when you are inconsistent. We all have times when we get tired or anxious or whatever else comes our way. But you don’t have time to give up! You only have time to get back on track and become consistent again. It takes work to have a change of mind. Take the time you need and don’t give up. As each day comes, do something that will help you get in the habit of being consistent.

Reevaluate what you are doing.

Take the time to reevaluate what it is that you have been doing to be consistent. You may find that you need to change something that you are doing. Moreover, you may actually find that what you thought was important to you is not really all that important! If it’s not important, then it’s alright for you to drop that and continue to learn what really is important.

Finally, rejoice in consistency!

When you have a win, then rejoice in it! Celebrate how God continues to bless you in the conistentcy that He is helping you to have. It is through Him that we live our lives–whether we are conistent or inconsistent. It is through Jesus Christ that we can accomplish what it is that He has planned for us.

I realize this is not an exhaustive list by any means. What other ideas do you have to become more consistent in the things that are most important to you?

* Definitions from wwww.dictionary.com

There are times that I want to write and there are times I really don’t want to write. Today happens to be one of those days that I feel like writing. Nothing in particular, just to set down some thoughts to get them out of my mind.

I’ve been thinking about God’s blessings upon my family and me. He truly has blessed us with everything that He has entrusted to us. While there is a winter storm outside, we are inside a warm home. I’m about to start a fire in the fireplace. We just had a wonderful breakfast and I’m sitting here in my recliner typing on my computer. My two Sons are in their rooms doing stuff. They feel blessed because they don’t have school today due to the inclement weather. My wife is relaxing in her recliner as she doesn’t have to go into her office. My dog, Max, is sitting in front of me dressed in his thunder jacket as we have thunder sleet happening. Even though he’s a nervous wreck, he’s blessed, too!

I’ve been thinking about the church I pastor. It is the best ministry of which I have been a part. My Staff is excellent and each of us strives for excellence–not perfection as we know that we will not be perfect as of right now. Excellence in all that we do is one of our goals. Another goal is to keep the unity of the church. We do this with the idea that we are all part of the one ministry of our church: we love God, love people, and we’re doing something about it together. We go and share the Good News of Jesus Christ and the salvation that He gives to all who believe. We serve our community through prayer and ministering in various aspects. We want to serve Jesus Christ who is Lord of lords and King of kings.

I’ve been thinking about seminary. I’m taking an Old Testament class this semester. It is excellent and I have an excellent professor–even when he chases rabbits during his lectures (all the rabbits are in the same corral, so I think it’s alright). At my age I’m pursuing a Masters in Theological Studies. After I obtain this degree, I may attempt a PhD or some other higher degree just for my own satisfaction. It’s not necessary on the one hand, but it is something that is on my mind to do.

I’ve been thinking about my family. My dad and his wife are out of the country right now. My mom is in west Texas with my sister. My brothers are all close by even though we don’t get together as often as I’d like. Each person in my family is busy with so many things with their own families just like I’m busy with mine. When we are able to get together, we always have a good time together.

There are times … I just sit and think … I just ponder … I just thank God for the ability.